Hi guys!! How are you all doing? I hope you’re well and staying safe. I am truly grateful for all the support and for the fact your reading my blogs. Thank you guys!! In today’s post I want to talk about other people’s opinions. First of all I’d like you to just close your eyes for one minute and think to yourself, what could you be or what could you have if you didn’t care what other people thought of you!!
Did you know most of our lives are governed by our habits, our fears, our circumstances and the opinions of others. Just remember somebody’s opinions of us does not have to become our reality. “Les Brown”. Now when you break it down. For example we can tell someone something we really want to do like a dream we have and then they say you can’t do that!! Or yeah, yeah. Sure, sure. And then we don’t do it because of there opinion. Then we are left with no dream. Nothing too chase and then they don’t even think about it again and go on with there life.
I think the best thing to do is not say anything and just go and do it. When your doing it they will ask what your doing and then tell them and if they reply like what I just said. Ignore them because someone’s opinion is none of your business and guess what. You’ve started and when you start, you create momentum. It’s much harder too give up or throw in the towel then.
If you have a dream that you have always held close too your heart and somebody questions that dream, then question there thinking. In other words what angle are they coming from. Are they being idiots about it or are they truly trying to take you away from you dream.
Also remember, it’s not up too you too keep everybody pleased. Because I can tell you if you try!! you will go crazy. It’s your dream!! Nobody else’s dream. They can’t see what you see in your head. It doesn’t mean to them what it means to you. So in saying that, you don’t need to go out and prove them wrong.
All that does is take your focus away from what your doing and changing why your doing it. Always remember what your doing and WHY your doing it and always keep that at the front of your mind. No matter what!!
The only reason a lot of people have an opinion in the first place is because they don’t have their own dreams and goals. People with dreams and goals that are very high don’t have time to worry about what other people are doing with themselves.
I hope you got something out of this blog. Like I said guys, I’m new to this and have no idea what I’m doing and when I told my friend I was doing blob posts. He laughed. He laughed, because he can’t see the new me. So this is proof you can change your life and not listen to the opinion of others and go and do something you’ve always wanted to do regardless of what people think. “It’s your dream.”
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this new post. Like I said before I hope you learnt something and I hope that this post can help at least 1 person do something that they have put off for years because they are worried about the opinions of other. Please be very careful guys and I’ll make a start on my new post.