
Hi guys, I hope you have all been well. Thank you all for your ongoing support and patience. Today I’d like to talk about my life’s meaning.
For about 4 months I was scratching my head daily asking myself, what am I here to do. On this planet. So of course I kept listening to my motivational videos and one guy said to spend 20 minutes in the morning in deep thought and ask those questions.
So every morning I woke up and asked the universe or god. Whatever it is you believe. But I just flat out asked. What am I on earth for? What am I supposed to do?
For a while I got no answers that I liked and one morning I had a thought. It was like a whisper. You need to focus on your kids. That voice got louder every day.
So I started spending a lot more time with them. I started reading occupational therapy books and speech therapy books and tried to learn as much as I could about how I can help them.
You see when I found out about my daughters diagnosis. I broke in a way I can’t describe. I went really bad for a while and then one day I got that angry I decided to turn my pain around and use that energy rather than let it use me.
I’ve said it before. I had read 1 maybe 2 books in my whole life before this point. Since then I have read atleast 50 books. Just 40 minutes per day. In 2 years from now that will be 100 books. Every book I read I learn more and more and become more aware.
Don’t get me wrong. I’ve had my bad days and weeks but I then try to get back up. I just keep plugging away at it. Going forward I’d like too share in my blogs some of the books I’ve read and what I’ve learnt from them.
But going back to my kids. The relationship I have with them now is unbelievable. My baby girl adores me and I love her and my son so much and I’m sure most parents understand what I mean. She is still non verbal but lately I’ve noticed it sounds like she’s trying to talk. That gives me so much hope.
I now truly believe she will one day, hopefully soon start talking. My daughter is 5 and a half and my son just had his 18th birthday and I’m so proud of him. At his age I was a complete stuff up. I look at him and am so proud of the young man he is. He is a truly good person. He has a great soul.
Guys if you have any good book recommendations that you’d like to tell me about can you please post it in the comments below. I’m always looking for new good books to help me improve everyday.
Also if you have any questions please feel free to ask. Thank you so much for your time and please stay safe.
Hi Jamie, after starting my blog & podcast series back in 2020, patience was the 1 thing I needed, so now here we are 16 month later, I have a few followers, and people who have been both kind and supportive leaving comments and liking the site. Thank you for following, I am also enjoying reading your blog
Regards
Garby
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Thank you Garby. Can you please tell me where I can find your podcast and what it’s called?
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Hi Jamie
Thanks for your reply, you can find the Podcast series here=> https://open.spotify.com/show/6KS7Vvj3A9bpBSPr3bS0LP?si=3cb32a588147468b
Regards
Garby
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Sorry The Podcast carries the same name as the Blog Surviving The Trauma Of Abuse
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I like reading your blog. Thank you very much for following.
I would like to recommende one book I have finished recently.
Listen to To Bless the Space Between Us by John O’Donohue, Aine Minoque on Audible. https://www.audible.in/pd/B079CD7TKG?source_code=ASSOR150021921000V
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Thank you. Behalf and also thank you for sharing this book I will have a look at it. I hope your well
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It’s so nice to meet you and thank you for following. You have a very uplifting presence. May God continue to bless you through your seeking of wisdom and unselfish love for your loved ones! Understanding our purpose is so hard. Especially when life is constantly throwing curve balls. Stay steady and ready. You’ve uncovered the secret~love!
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Thank you K.L. Hale. I appreciate that so much. Just so you and all my followers know I don’t just have an unselfish love for my loved ones. I also have a lot of love for all of us. We are all human. We all go through our ups and downs. Some worse than others. I’m really trying my hardest to help the people at rock bottom. The people that feel hey have no hope. It’s a beautiful life out there and I just want the broken people to see it. So guys if you are broken and want help please just go to Facebook. Type in JamieRecycle in the search bar and you’ll find me and DM me there and we can talk. I’m here to help and will help as much as I can
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Jamie, what a beautiful mission in life! I feel the same as you. My love is for everyone too. My two greatest missions~love God, love others. You are making a difference no doubt! I’ve been at rock bottom, more than once, and like you, I want to help others too. I’m not on FB. But am glad to know you in this space! Humanity needs hope! Thank you for being you! Much love!
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Thank you so much. K.L. Hale that message means the world to me. All these nice messages make me feel like I’m on the right track. By the sounds of it your an amazing person and I’m pretty sure your help lots of people too. Thank you again😃
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Aww, thank you Jamie! And you’re so welcome! We must all stand together and I’m glad we’re on the same team my friend! 😊
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Me too. Thanks K.L. Hale
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Thank you k.L.
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You’re welcome! Karla 🙂
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Your blog is special and an uplifting one. It moves one and that’s the best part
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Saki!! That is soo good too know. That makes me feel amazing so many people like my blogs. I had no idea what I was doing when I started but I just started and I’m getting results. Thank you Saji you are amazing 😁👍
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Amazing blog you got and thanks for following
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Your welcome and thank you mate.
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You are welcome champ
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I very much needed to read this today. Thank you.
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Your very welcome I’m glad it helped. Are you ok?
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Excellent, thank you. Just changed my focus to my wife and kids instead of staying so self-centered.
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Wow that’s awesome mate. I’m so happy for you. It’s always good to look after yourself so you can be the best you can be for them. That’s one thing I’ve learnt anyway. But I’m truly glad my words helped you. The more you focus on them and treasure them. The more they will respond and love you even more which will make you feel better too. Thank you for the comment mate. I hope it all goes well 😊
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